The GOODF Approach
Would you like to react to this message? Create an account in a few clicks or log in to continue.
Search
 
 

Display results as :
 


Rechercher Advanced Search

Latest topics
» Purchased Used car, thew con rod after 4 weeks, 40,000mi on clock, can we get out of the finance?
by scrwm Today at 10:08 am

» Smart Meter and Pre Pay Meter remedy
by daveiron Today at 8:29 am

» are they feeling the pinch...?
by pitano1 Yesterday at 7:19 pm

» C'Tax & The Bradbury Pound System
by LionsShare Yesterday at 2:52 pm

» Fruit
by assassin Yesterday at 4:36 am

» Are Lowell getting desperate ?
by waylander62 Wed Apr 24, 2024 2:08 pm

» Electric Vehicles
by assassin Wed Apr 24, 2024 4:57 am

» Water charges
by daveiron Wed Apr 24, 2024 4:36 am

» 20 mph speed limit enforcable????
by flyingfish Tue Apr 23, 2024 9:26 pm

» DSAR
by brownowl Tue Apr 23, 2024 4:59 pm

» Allotments
by flyingfish Tue Apr 23, 2024 7:54 am

» Energy debt
by flyingfish Tue Apr 23, 2024 7:49 am

» HO HO HO not that shinning or with clean hands !!!!!!
by Lopsum Sun Apr 21, 2024 7:04 pm

» Psychological Operation - Evidence on more fraud
by Lopsum Sun Apr 21, 2024 7:00 pm

» Allodial Title
by urchinatheart Wed Apr 17, 2024 10:13 am

» Grow Potatoes
by Mrblue2015 Wed Apr 17, 2024 8:18 am

» Feed Yourself For Less
by assassin Tue Apr 16, 2024 7:23 pm

» New GOODF - small account closed upon Notice 3
by RaspberryBlu Tue Apr 16, 2024 1:02 pm

» DWP
by daveiron Tue Apr 16, 2024 12:23 am

» LGA1888 sect79 sub2
by urchinatheart Mon Apr 15, 2024 9:15 am

» Know who you are
by badvoc Sun Apr 14, 2024 12:51 pm

» Know Who You Are Even More Volumes To Come
by LionsShare Sun Apr 14, 2024 11:24 am

» Council Tax questions we should all be asking
by LionsShare Sun Apr 14, 2024 11:05 am

» Woke, Nimbys, Snowflakes and idiots
by urchinatheart Fri Apr 12, 2024 12:09 am

» Never Buy Seeds Again
by assassin Wed Apr 10, 2024 6:14 pm

» Ovo bank giro?
by LionsShare Wed Apr 10, 2024 6:07 pm

» Is your car a government remote controled car???
by Lopsum Wed Apr 10, 2024 12:48 pm

» peacekeepers apprantly get a c'tax win?
by LionsShare Wed Apr 10, 2024 11:14 am

» Can I Complete The Food Circle
by urchinatheart Tue Apr 09, 2024 11:46 am

» Council tax and summons for arrest
by LionsShare Mon Apr 08, 2024 2:44 pm

» THIS IS THE ONE ?
by schist Fri Apr 05, 2024 1:04 pm

» Garden Share
by assassin Thu Apr 04, 2024 4:37 pm

» Serial Posty been awarded £10'000 for a fake bite
by assassin Wed Apr 03, 2024 7:23 pm

» The new ruling, lie-ability order
by assassin Wed Apr 03, 2024 7:04 pm

» New Member
by schist Sat Mar 30, 2024 3:00 pm

» DVLA [Hick] Does It Work [Hick] ?
by Miss Kermit Thu Mar 28, 2024 4:15 pm

» know who you are volume ??
by daveiron Tue Mar 26, 2024 9:38 pm

» Hopefully A Success
by daveiron Sun Mar 24, 2024 9:28 pm

» Most Complete Bank Giro Credit
by LionsShare Sun Mar 24, 2024 12:06 pm

» Knowing our Lawful rights
by daveiron Sat Mar 23, 2024 6:05 am

» More Illegal Immigrants
by assassin Thu Mar 21, 2024 5:43 pm

» SAR dispute
by assassin Thu Mar 21, 2024 5:32 pm

» There goes Ireland, his off.
by midnight Thu Mar 21, 2024 1:07 pm

» The infamous DP continus
by urchinatheart Mon Mar 18, 2024 3:01 pm

» Call to the DVLA
by urchinatheart Mon Mar 18, 2024 2:36 pm

» BEWARE OF TSB BANK
by daveiron Sun Mar 17, 2024 6:53 am

» Help / Advice needed on ongoing neighbour harassment
by memegirl777 Sat Mar 16, 2024 5:51 pm

» United Kingdom? Really?
by assassin Sat Mar 16, 2024 4:17 pm

» DWP and HMRC alleged debts
by assassin Wed Mar 13, 2024 7:20 pm

» HSBC advice please.
by Trishiapp28 Wed Mar 13, 2024 7:36 am

» He is going to save us again
by flyingfish Sun Mar 10, 2024 12:00 pm

» Government fraud
by midnight Sun Mar 10, 2024 7:01 am

» how to remove a shareholder?
by scrwm Fri Mar 08, 2024 12:06 pm

» I DO NOT CONSENT [62%] - ReformUK got 5% of the electorate. Labour 17%
by badvoc Thu Mar 07, 2024 12:25 pm

» What can ai do about Santander
by Godfastro Thu Mar 07, 2024 11:47 am

Moon phases


Divorce related

4 posters

Page 1 of 2 1, 2  Next

Go down

The author of this message was banned from the forum - See the message

Divorce related Empty Re: Divorce related

Post by daveiron Thu Sep 03, 2020 2:27 pm

So sorry to hear this.Hopefully others here can offer some thoughts on this.
Just for now all that comes to mind is ;
Do you have any documents relating to the gold ? 1 kilo = £ 50 k today.
This may be one of those occasions when you need to consult a solicitor.
You should be able to get 1/2 hour free to get your options explained to you.
If you go ahead with the divorce ,do not just settle on the first solicitor you
see. I personally visited at least 6 before I found one I was happy with, and
their performance could decide the outcome, because the allegations your
wife is making are very common & the courts are aware of this .
You need to safegaurd your interest in the property & your rights to see your
child.

daveiron
daveiron
Admin
Admin

Posts : 4914
Join date : 2017-01-17

assassin likes this post

Back to top Go down

The author of this message was banned from the forum - See the message

The author of this message was banned from the forum - See the message

Divorce related Empty Re: Divorce related

Post by assassin Fri Sep 04, 2020 2:16 am

If she used your credit card without your consent then its theft, pure and simple; report it to the police and this will begin your paper trail and inform them it was without your knowledge and consent; it might sound harsh but it begins the paperwork trail in your favour.
I would also speak to your credit card company and get an itemised list of all purchases for that period as this strengthens your case.
assassin
assassin
Admin
Admin

Posts : 3567
Join date : 2017-01-28
Location : Wherever I Lay My Head

Back to top Go down

The author of this message was banned from the forum - See the message

Divorce related Empty Re: Divorce related

Post by daveiron Fri Sep 04, 2020 8:47 am

Yes ,there are no time limits on fraud.
As assassin pointed out this may seem harsh ,but other than the welfare of
your young child.you need to do this for yourself .Why should you lose everything ?
Be assured that women who act this way will when you start earning make
a claim for child maintainance ,a child which it sounds like you are denied access
to. If you have 50% of the equity in the property make sure you do not lose it.
daveiron
daveiron
Admin
Admin

Posts : 4914
Join date : 2017-01-17

Back to top Go down

The author of this message was banned from the forum - See the message

Divorce related Empty Re: Divorce related

Post by daveiron Fri Sep 04, 2020 10:48 am

All I would add is when you look for a solicitor ,check out those that specialise
in divorce.One who does a bit of everything is not your best option.

Just a bit of advice should others find themselves in this position.
Never move out no matter what.
daveiron
daveiron
Admin
Admin

Posts : 4914
Join date : 2017-01-17

assassin and Mrblue2015 like this post

Back to top Go down

The author of this message was banned from the forum - See the message

Divorce related Empty Re: Divorce related

Post by Mrblue2015 Sat Sep 05, 2020 6:27 am

https://cordellcordell.co.uk

Love the fact they specialise on men too (how non PC, very refreshing!)
Mrblue2015
Mrblue2015
Moderator
Moderator

Posts : 2470
Join date : 2017-06-11

assassin and wokeup like this post

Back to top Go down

The author of this message was banned from the forum - See the message

Divorce related Empty Re: Divorce related

Post by daveiron Fri Aug 20, 2021 4:43 pm

Check this to see if you qualify,
https://www.gov.uk/check-legal-aid
If you go to mediation ,do not agree to anything until you have had
chance to take advice.

Have you checked out the link Mr Blue has given ?
daveiron
daveiron
Admin
Admin

Posts : 4914
Join date : 2017-01-17

Mrblue2015 likes this post

Back to top Go down

The author of this message was banned from the forum - See the message

Divorce related Empty Re: Divorce related

Post by Mrblue2015 Sat Aug 21, 2021 12:14 am

When you spoke to Cordell & Cordell, could you not have come to some compromise, a token payment etc? Or where they that uncompromising in their stance?
Mrblue2015
Mrblue2015
Moderator
Moderator

Posts : 2470
Join date : 2017-06-11

Back to top Go down

Divorce related Empty Re: Divorce related

Post by assassin Sat Aug 21, 2021 3:50 am

You need specialist advice as everything you have of equitable value is split 50:50 and half is yours, it isn;t looking good that you are homeless and she is using this to force you to sign the house over to her.
I don't understand how she claimed NOT to know where you are when she bought the ticket to India, then you get an E-mail in India, this immediately raises suspicions about the authenticity of this document. Tickets can be traced, you will have passed through immigration and listed there, you will be listed on the airlines passenger manifest if you flew, and you passed through immigration in India so the records will exist. In addition to this the ticket payment details will be traceable and you can ask how she afforded the ticket on a low income and this has repurcussions, if her income is insufficient then it proves she had other assets such as gold to sell in untraceable income; but wait, who or where did she sell the gold because there will be a record of this transaction also.
assassin
assassin
Admin
Admin

Posts : 3567
Join date : 2017-01-28
Location : Wherever I Lay My Head

daveiron and Mrblue2015 like this post

Back to top Go down

Divorce related Empty Re: Divorce related

Post by daveiron Sat Aug 21, 2021 9:13 am

Although its nearly 40 years ago now,this is something i have personal
experience of, & whilst this will probably be the most traumatic event you
will face in your life its vital you fight as hard as you can.
How did you purchase the gold ? Was it from somewhere like Bullion by Post
if so bank records will show the transaction. Get the bank statements.
Collect as many documents and evidence as you can. She cannot be forced
to sell the house until the youngest child reaches 18, so its vital you retain equity
in the house.
Check out the legal aid link & if need be source a solicitor locally,do not just
go to one ,i personally went to at least 6 before i found one i was happy
with and they were 15 miles away. Most solicitors give a free half hour
consultation so take advantage of it.

Just for anyone reading this post, if it happens to you ,never never move out.



daveiron
daveiron
Admin
Admin

Posts : 4914
Join date : 2017-01-17

LionsShare and Mrblue2015 like this post

Back to top Go down

Divorce related Empty Re: Divorce related

Post by Mrblue2015 Sat Aug 21, 2021 9:31 am

Knowledge is power (and security, long term happiness, and sanity…)
Mrblue2015
Mrblue2015
Moderator
Moderator

Posts : 2470
Join date : 2017-06-11

daveiron and LionsShare like this post

Back to top Go down

The author of this message was banned from the forum - See the message

The author of this message was banned from the forum - See the message

The author of this message was banned from the forum - See the message

The author of this message was banned from the forum - See the message

Divorce related Empty Re: Divorce related

Post by assassin Wed Aug 25, 2021 3:01 am

Your mental state works for you as you are classed as vulnerable and as such their legal team have to tread very carefully.
assassin
assassin
Admin
Admin

Posts : 3567
Join date : 2017-01-28
Location : Wherever I Lay My Head

Back to top Go down

The author of this message was banned from the forum - See the message

The author of this message was banned from the forum - See the message

Divorce related Empty Re: Divorce related

Post by Sponsored content


Sponsored content


Back to top Go down

Page 1 of 2 1, 2  Next

Back to top


 
Permissions in this forum:
You cannot reply to topics in this forum